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Ready to start building that guest list?! Start by breaking it down into categories to keep it organized and less overwhelming! The ABCD method is your new bestie for this:

A: Must-haves, like your fam and besties—those people you literally can’t get married without.

B: Your fave cousins, lifelong friends, and close family.

C: Neighbors, coworkers, and your parents’ friends (you know, the people who’ve been around for all the big moments but maybe aren’t in your everyday circle).

D: Distant relatives, acquaintances, or people you’ve lost touch with (aka anyone you’re “meh” about).

Once you’ve categorized everyone, it’ll be easier to adjust and trim the list if needed! ✂️

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Now let’s get into the nitty-gritty!

Family

Your parents may have their own ideas about the guest list, and that’s totally okay! Traditionally, each family gets half, but it’s becoming more common to split the list into three parts: bride’s side, groom’s side, and your own friends. Communication is key here! Make sure everyone’s on the same page—especially if family members are helping with the budget.

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Children

Child-free or kid-friendly? Either is okay! If you’d prefer no kids, just make sure it’s clear on your invite. If you’re inviting little ones, consider a “kids’ corner” with a sitter so parents can relax and have fun! 🎉

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Work

In a small office? It’s polite to invite the whole gang. But if you work in a larger company, feel free to stick to your closest work friends. And inviting the boss? That’s totally up to you and how comfy you feel about it! 😎

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Old Friends

Don’t feel pressured to invite people just because they invited you to their wedding. If you’ve drifted apart, it’s totally fine to skip them on your list. Your wedding should be about celebrating with people who matter most to you right now and in the future! 💕

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Need to make some cuts? Here’s how you can reduce the count without stressing out:

Limit children—some parents will be relieved to have a night off! 😅

Skip work acquaintances if you’re not close outside the office.

Limit plus-ones—only invite guests you know personally or those in serious relationships.

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Remember, it’s YOUR day, and your guest list should reflect the people who make your heart happiest. Whether you’re hosting 200+ guests or keeping it intimate with 20, what matters most is having your loved ones there to celebrate. 💖✨

And if the list feels overwhelming, don’t worry! We’re always here to help you navigate through the planning process! 😍

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YAY! Time to talk about the guest list—one of the MOST exciting parts of wedding planning! Who doesn’t love the idea of having all your favorite people in one place to celebrate YOU?! 🎉💖 But let’s be real—it can be a bit tricky to figure out exactly who to invite. 😅 No worries though, we’ve got some tips to make it stress-free and fun! Here’s how to make sure your wedding day is filled with all the love, laughter, and smiling faces you want!